DRESSES, is that all that matters to you. In case u haven't realize it yet girl fashion was back then, when we had to compete for best looking shirts and sh***. Now a days people don't seems to be worrying about what or how they dress anymore, especially in NY no disrespect to the one that still keep in it down there. If u r from NY, girl u seriously don't need to talk about dressing cause ur if i had known better i should of went with the fashion police cause some women were looking mighty **** up @ DYAKOUT & KOMPA CREOLE Saturday night oh my goodness and ya had some terrible attitude. I probably do need to remind u of a little quote. ( A PLACE THAT'S STINK DON'T NEED TO HAVE STINK PEOPLE LEAVING IN IT) that makes u look worst girl so please do stop with the dress ****. (MESSAGE 2 U SWEETHEART) IT"S not the clothes it's how u wear it. U probably shop in Flatbush anyways, so don't compare ur 15$ skirt with something that might worth more than everything u probably could a have on. Some guys would go out there way to buy the nicest looking shirt or jeans and u ladies would only wear a 10$ payless shoes thinking that u are on top of the world GIRL PLEASE.
Second, yes it is good to be selective, don't select him because he has on some fake gucci which u probably won't know the real one if u see it anyways. Select him because he has a good sence of humor, he may guide u to ur destiny, or he might be ur husband one day who knows. It's time u start using ur brain instead of ur eyes, girl WAKE UP & SMELL THE NEW LIFE.Now a days the one that dresses to impress, most likely will the one ****ing u and leave ur sorry ass with 2/3 kids to take care of. ( sorry for my language, there was no other way to express my feelings).
Third, HAVING FUN WITH UR GIRL, how much of a dance can u have with a girl if u r not gay all though there's nothing wrong with that. ? will it be the same if i was dancing with a guy friend all night? don't even answer cause i think i may already know the answer. U said u wanted to breath, of course u may just leave the stink attitude with ur MAMMY @ HOME.
I understands what you mean about hanging with you girls friend, but you seriously go out to dance with your girl? If you gay i can accept that, otherwise that's bull. Yea, yea some guys do need to use breath mint before approaching a girls. However, Haitian girls are still full ox excuses. Many of them are gay, but are in denial..
What dont worry about how he dresses r you crazy thats the first thing you look at b4 u ask a girl to dance so whats wrong with us being selective? I think its not really what u were but how u were it (gotta match) some guys need to realize brut is not colonge and it wont hurt to keep some breath mint handy. And last but not least u r right I came to have fun but maybe with my girls and not with any of u guys gosh give us some space to breath whats wrong with dancing alone?
quote: Originally posted by: Lourdy "Listen! I think all of you haev missed the point. it is about how you approach a girl. A nymber of Haitian guys act like "vagabon "when they go to club. They think you their wie or girls or something, the way they ask you to dance. be more smooth in your approach, then we will dance with you "
Now im sorry to say it, but u r the one that seems to be missing the point here. May i please have this dance? excuse me miss would you like to dance? questions like that should not get a no if you really thing of it Miss Lourdy. Please do use the word vagobon quite where it belongs. Vagabon pa mache sou moun, therefore if any man approach u the wrong way it doesn't really means he's a vagabon just lack of respect that's all, and I of all haitian men out there would like to apologize for his behavior for he does not know better. To be smooth is to be yourself if he approached you with his hand by asking u politely that is smooth, don't look at the size of his shoes or whether or not he has a gucci pants or versage shirts on all he wants is a simple dance, its not for any women to critisize him by what he wore. think for a minute b.4 u write back. PLEASE MY HAITIAN QUEENS STOP WITH THIS YING YANG STUFF. ENJOY LIFE ///ONCE AGAIN U R OUT 2 HAVE A GOOG TIME. LEAVE THE GOSSIP @ HOME WITH UR MOMMA.
Listen! I think all of you haev missed the point. it is about how you approach a girl. A nymber of Haitian guys act like "vagabon "when they go to club. They think you their wie or girls or something, the way they ask you to dance. be more smooth in your approach, then we will dance with you
You must have read my mind. I am glad you bring this topic up. I don't know what is wrong with Haitian woman. When you go to party and you ask them to dance. They act as if you're from another planet or/ as if you were going to marry them or something. But wait, that is not all. i notice some girls prefer to dance with light skin Haitian whether they ugly or nto ( i am not making this up). Next time you go to club A or anything other haitian club in New York, if you pay close enough attention I am sure you will notice that. I had the experience.
Most often when i go to Haitian club whether it is here in New York or Miami. Haitian woman look at you form head to toes when you ask them to dance. If they don't like fom tete you, they amke all kind of excuse (like you said) not to dance with you. I am not talking about beautiful girls, often average to ugly. I come to beleive some Haitian woman don't how to have a good time. unless they drunk or something.
in the 2 years or, i stop going to Haitian party. my friend introduced me to club on Hempteads where they have hispanic girls dancing for just 2 dollar, nto question ask. You go there and have yourself a great time. Haitian woman are loosing out.
Women, first of all greeting to all you beautiful haitians queens. Now please b.4 u get all rational concerning this lil topic, do take your sweet tiimes by finally realising that enough is enough. This has got to stop, such lame excuses ( my legs hurting me) ( next song) ( don't feel to good) and more. Ladies please, yes we (men) know that we didn't pay for you to be here but if you (women) came to have a good time why not enjoy the moment and not worry about the type of men you'll be dancing with. Not every men would want to have your ph#, your address and possibly your name. All they probably would want to do is enjoy a simple dance. So please next you somewhere having a good time please do make sure you have a good time and stop worry about whose stepping on your 10 dollars shoes.
