What do you do when your wife becomes your grandmother? What do you do when she wears rollers to the grocery store? What do you do when she accompanies you and your child to parent teacher night wearing a red and green sock with a pair of pink pumps? Do you run and hide? Do you cry, or do you just complain? Tell me....what do you do when she feels like making a fashion statment means creating an outfit with her floral prints and Zebra stripes? What do you do when you wife has become Gran Nana?
I was getting tired of hearing the average Haitian male telling me that their women are not as beautiful and sexy as they used to be when they first met them.
Considering that I'm a die-hard feminist, I'd always stand up for my sisters. I'd argue with them until I got tired..........and that takes a very long time. But I had to step away from being a Haitian woman for a minute to view the scene...........sure enough, my Haitian brothers we're arguing something that even I couldn't contest.
I knew there was a problem when a friend of mine called me up in the middle of the night to ask where his Haitian princess' were at. He said "I'd die to have a Haitian girl, but I find myself dating other nationalities because all the Haitian women I've dated are lacking. His biggest phobia was to actually find the Haitian woman of his dreams and see her turn into his grandmother the next day. In other words he doesn't want to see her as Cindy Crawford today and to Mme Cineyas who was his next door neighbor in Haiti during the 80's.
Fellas if you're going through this situation holla at a sister.
Let us know how you really feel, but most of all let your wife know how you feel?
P.S. Ladies don't forget how to entice your men........if you're having trouble drop by the Victoria Secrets & Barns & Noble near you!!!
Love & Peace